—u/Reasonable-Pen-88 “He’s trying to get OP to question whether her very legitimate complaints about him are fair/reasonable by calling her ‘irrational’ or ‘crazy’ and suggesting that she’s not in control of her own feelings and actions because she menstruates. It’s awful. It’s also very dumb, because she can very clearly disprove what he’s saying by demonstrating that she is not, in fact, on her period.” —u/LilBabyADHD —u/kaymarie00 “Also, he claims to be nauseated by the sight of her clean, naked genitals. If that were my relationship, it would be the last time he was ever subjected to the sight of my body, naked or clothed. He finds the sight of his wife’s body disgusting? Either he’s gaslighting about that, too, or else he’s got issues with her body. Either way, relationship ender.” —u/SearchApprehensive35 —u/cifala “I’m sorry you married a clown like that; you should seriously think of a divorce.” —u/HooksAndChains13 “I try not to fall into the ‘get a divorce’ cliché of Reddit, but sometimes, you have to throw the whole man away.” —u/WamblingWombat